Anonymous:

I've been in a romantic relationship for 2 years. I'm really happy with this person and feel like my want for a romantic relationship is absolutely met. But at the same time, I am not the type of person to say "my bf/gf is my best friend." I haven't had a best friend since before college, and now there's a hole in my heart where my best friend used to be. I'm at a stage of life where everyone has a best friend or doesn't feel the need to have one... But I still really want that strong connection

A:

honestly if theyre not your best friend i do think thats perfectly okay. its totally understandable to want to have somebody to talk to outside of your relationship and in fact, i think thats super important.

maybe start reaching out to people that you know and seeing how their day is going and starting a conversation and slowly that hole will start to feel smaller and smaller 💖

tell me a story, a secret, anything

Posted 1 year ago
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